Indecent Conversation

While I was enjoying my sumptuous lunch, a group of ladies sat to a table a few centimeters away to mine. And because of distance, I can’t help but overheard their conversation. Well, who wouldn’t be? I don’t think they realized the sensitivity of the topic. So they casually blurted out their comments. Here goes the conversation:
Woman 1: They are reshuffling the guys.
Woman 2: Well, who cares? I got my eyes on Guy.
Woman 1: Guy is already married.
Woman 2: Its fine. What I am only after is bodily treasures.
Woman 1: Ahahahah. You mean Bodily pleasures right?
Woman 2: No. Bodily treasure like shopping, etc. Not Bodily pleasure. [Giggle]
Woman 1: Ahahaha. Okay.
I was bothered by their remarks so I looked at the ladies. And forgive me readers for saying this, but Woman 1 & 2 are in no position to be so confident. I will not explain why. I’ll leave that to you to think. They go on talking about this whole thing but my ears were shut cause its all rubbish to me. From the looks of their face, I can say they are old enough to know what their saying. They don’t seemed to know their grounds. I may not know the whole situation nor have meet the guy their talking about but I am not presumptuous enough to have thought that what their saying wasn’t good. I am against adultery or even divorce. They destroy family. Kiridas and such are pests to relationship. And hearing this makes me want to blurt out to them the gravity of what their talking about. I don’t know what was on Woman 2’s mind when she just said “What I am only after is bodily treasures”. I can’t helped to think if the guy is like Multimillionaire in white collar to just give money or stuffs. But if its not, I guess it only boils down to that kind of “give-and-take” scenario. And what amazed me is that woman 1 did not reprimand or retaliate but instead laugh. She could have told woman 2 it was wrong to have inappropriate remarks.
Because of this, I lost my appetite and I would have love to slam the plates on the table. But I controlled my temper. I silently packed my lunch, stood up and paid the bill. All that time, my face was at “Mad State”. They don’t just ruin my lunch but irresponsibly talked about something I don’t wish to hear esp from ladies.

Embracing God's Love

Learn that on every bad things in your life, you just need to look up and smile cause someone who knows you more than yourself is watching every step you make, cheers you every step forward, and is always at your back for support whenever you back down. And loves you more than you'll ever know.

Pain: Its Story

Had you ever felt the pain that tears the very reason of your existence? I guess you'd never wished for it, right? Here's a question that I guess each one of us may have different answers. Cause the severity of each pain we feel depends on each story we bare in our life. And so I guess, ranking pain is definitely out of question.

being trapped in a relationship

This is not an unusual problem. A lot of early couples are experiencing this kind of issue. Trapped in the sense that the person in that relationship feels no future in their relationship. But he/she cant give up that person because his/her partner still holds on to them. And the partner is still believing that they can still make it.

It really sucks to be into something that is not working well. Honestly and open communication between partners really helps . The hardest part is taking the risk by deciding to let go and holding on to the decision for the better good. Ignoring wont drive this away cause a time will come that it would be a lot harder to fix the problem.

A lot of people experiencing this thinks that letting go or forcing their other partner to break their relationship is being cruel to their partner. Specially when they see that their partner is trying his/her best in holding on.

But this is not the case, it doesn't mean that if the other one is trying to make ends meet in your relationship. Then everything would turned out to be fine. THe issue here is that you not growing as a couple if one ignores the issue because it would be cruelty or wrong and the other one is covering it up with efforts.

Its hard specially if you have been together for quite a long time and had beaten a lot of odds together. And it would a sad thing to admit to yourselves that your not growing close but farther apart. Admittance that you had this issue, honesty on speaking, listening, and had a courage to decide are the things you should put in mind.

A Kiss that feels right

Ever since the ancient times, kiss has been one of the best way to show affection or respect to someone. A touching of one person's lips to another place that somehow evolved through time and many kinds were born from it. But aside from that, kissing has been one of the ways to find a suitable partner.

We sometimes came across to a lot of people who considered kissing someone a way to determine if that person was right for them. A lot also claimed that kissing someone who is really meant for you feels different or somewhat special compared to kissing other people. They call it “the spark”. Funny it seems that some rely on this spark to find the perfect one.

Would a kiss be enough to decide if you are meant to be? Many would say “Yes”. But a few would be skeptical about it. But me, I don’t totally disagree with the whole thing but may add a few details. When you find someone or if you’re with someone meant for you, I beg not to be melodramatically about it, everything would feel right. Even the slightest breath of air, the sound, the moment, everything would feel right. And these things do not go one way.

It is not only the kiss that would feel right when your with the one you love… but everything… would feel right.