Hi..
its never been easy to say things like this. Its not that I never saw this coming but I've been trying to do my best to ignore these kind of things. I was hoping up until now things will still work out between us. However, I am afraid it isn't. You dont have to lie anymore by saying "Everything is fine between us". I no longer need to pretend that we are Okay eventhough we are not. I know we've tried hard on this. But things are not working right.
So, eventhough it breaks my heart to say this, I am letting you go. I am not giving up on you. I've always wanted you to be happy even if it means you leaving me. I know God knows I want you so bad to stay. But you're happiness comes first than mine.
I just want you to know how much I treasure every moment we had. You know I'll do anything for you. It will be hard getting over someone like you but I'll try my best. I hope you will be fine as well now without me by your side.
Though its painful to say good bye, but I have to.. I love you.. I hope you felt that. I wish you happiness, Good bye..
==Charles==
This is not an unusual problem. A lot of early couples are experiencing this kind of issue. Trapped in the sense that the person in that relationship feels no future in their relationship. But he/she cant give up that person because his/her partner still holds on to them. And the partner is still believing that they can still make it.
It really sucks to be into something that is not working well. Honestly and open communication between partners really helps . The hardest part is taking the risk by deciding to let go and holding on to the decision for the better good. Ignoring wont drive this away cause a time will come that it would be a lot harder to fix the problem.
A lot of people experiencing this thinks that letting go or forcing their other partner to break their relationship is being cruel to their partner. Specially when they see that their partner is trying his/her best in holding on.
But this is not the case, it doesn't mean that if the other one is trying to make ends meet in your relationship. Then everything would turned out to be fine. THe issue here is that you not growing as a couple if one ignores the issue because it would be cruelty or wrong and the other one is covering it up with efforts.
Its hard specially if you have been together for quite a long time and had beaten a lot of odds together. And it would a sad thing to admit to yourselves that your not growing close but farther apart. Admittance that you had this issue, honesty on speaking, listening, and had a courage to decide are the things you should put in mind.
Ever since the ancient times, kiss has been one of the best way to show affection or respect to someone. A touching of one person's lips to another place that somehow evolved through time and many kinds were born from it. But aside from that, kissing has been one of the ways to find a suitable partner.
We sometimes came across to a lot of people who considered kissing someone a way to determine if that person was right for them. A lot also claimed that kissing someone who is really meant for you feels different or somewhat special compared to kissing other people. They call it “the spark”. Funny it seems that some rely on this spark to find the perfect one.
Would a kiss be enough to decide if you are meant to be? Many would say “Yes”. But a few would be skeptical about it. But me, I don’t totally disagree with the whole thing but may add a few details. When you find someone or if you’re with someone meant for you, I beg not to be melodramatically about it, everything would feel right. Even the slightest breath of air, the sound, the moment, everything would feel right. And these things do not go one way.
It is not only the kiss that would feel right when your with the one you love… but everything… would feel right.
